{"id":1037,"date":"2021-08-24T07:56:14","date_gmt":"2021-08-24T05:56:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lifestyleplus.cz\/?p=1037"},"modified":"2021-08-24T07:56:16","modified_gmt":"2021-08-24T05:56:16","slug":"dobrovolne-single-tricatnice-maji-jasno-svoboda-je-prvorada","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lifestyleplus.cz\/?p=1037","title":{"rendered":"Dobrovoln\u011b single? T\u0159ic\u00e1tnice maj\u00ed jasno – svoboda je prvo\u0159ad\u00e1"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Jsou single a pro\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed nej\u0161\u0165astn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed obdob\u00ed sv\u00e9ho \u017eivota. St\u00e1le v\u00edce t\u0159ic\u00e1tnic d\u00e1v\u00e1 p\u0159ednost svobod\u011b ne\u017e partnerstv\u00ed, a rozhodn\u011b na tom nepl\u00e1nuj\u00ed nic m\u011bnit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dne\u0161n\u00ed single t\u0159ic\u00e1tnice stoj\u00ed na k\u0159i\u017eovatce. Z jedn\u00e9 strany jsou souzeno star\u0161\u00ed generac\u00ed, kter\u00e1 je pokl\u00e1d\u00e1 za star\u00e9 panny a ty chudinky, kter\u00e9 si nemohou naj\u00edt man\u017eela. Druhou stranu tvo\u0159\u00ed otev\u0159en\u011bj\u0161\u00ed lid\u00e9, kte\u0159\u00ed nevid\u00ed jedinou funkci \u017eeny v rozen\u00ed d\u011bt\u00ed a budov\u00e1n\u00ed hn\u00edzda.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Stereotypn\u00ed nahl\u00ed\u017een\u00ed na roli \u017eeny se postupn\u011b naru\u0161uje, a n\u011b\u017en\u00e9 pohlav\u00ed za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 rozhodovat podle vlastn\u00edch p\u0159\u00e1n\u00ed. P\u0159est\u00e1vaj\u00ed se b\u00e1t vzep\u0159\u00edt tomu, co se od nich o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1, a sv\u016fj \u017eivot pod\u0159izuj\u00ed sv\u00fdm p\u0159\u00e1n\u00edm, ne t\u00edm spole\u010dnost\u00ed stanoven\u00fdm. Neob\u00e1vaj\u00ed se samoty, naopak si ji u\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed; a to je jen jeden z d\u016fvod\u016f, pro\u010d se do partnerstv\u00ed nehrnou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Samota neznamen\u00e1 osam\u011blost
Mysl\u00edme si, \u017ee samota je to nejhor\u0161\u00ed co n\u00e1s m\u016f\u017ee potkat, av\u0161ak je\u0161t\u011b hor\u0161\u00ed je c\u00edtit se osam\u011ble ve spole\u010dnosti lid\u00ed. Existuje mnoho vztah\u016f, kter\u00e9 vzniknou pouze za \u00fa\u010delem neb\u00fdt s\u00e1m. Tak velmi se ob\u00e1v\u00e1me b\u00fdt sami se sebou – a pro\u010d? Ob\u00e1v\u00e1me se poznat sami sebe, vid\u011bt na\u0161i pravou tv\u00e1\u0159?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00edt\u00edme se ve vlastn\u00ed spole\u010dnosti nekomfortn\u011b? Mnoha lid\u00ed nehezk\u00e9 d\u011btstv\u00ed nau\u010dilo nem\u00edt se r\u00e1d a nec\u00edtit se dob\u0159e ve sv\u00e9 k\u016f\u017ei; a samota v n\u00e1s tyto pocity vyvol\u00e1v\u00e1. \u0158\u00edt\u00edme se do vztahu jen proto, \u017ee nev\u00edme jak se sebou vydr\u017eet. Jen\u017ee paradoxn\u011b, kdy\u017e neum\u00edme vydr\u017eet sami se sebou, nev\u00ed to s n\u00e1mi vydr\u017eet ani nikdo jin\u00fd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pro single \u017eeny nen\u00ed samota negativn\u00ed pojem. Znaj\u00ed svou osobnost velmi dob\u0159e ai to je d\u016fvod, pro\u010d se st\u00e1v\u00e1 jejich obl\u00edben\u00fdm spole\u010dn\u00edkem na tr\u00e1ven\u00ed voln\u00fdch chvil. Neboj\u00ed se sv\u00fdch my\u0161lenek, pocit\u016f, proto\u017ee s nimi um\u00ed pracovat, ne\u017e aby jejich tlumily jinou spole\u010dnost\u00ed. V\u011bd\u00ed, co cht\u011bj\u00ed a jdou si za t\u00edm. Rozv\u00edjej\u00ed sv\u00e9 kon\u00ed\u010dky, vyv\u00edjej\u00ed se v pr\u00e1ci, kter\u00e1 se st\u00e1v\u00e1 tak\u00e9 jejich hobby.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cen\u00ed si sv\u016fj osobn\u00ed prostor
Nez\u00e1vislost je naka\u017eliv\u00fd pocit. Rozhodovat se sama za sebe bez kompromis\u016f, bez ohledu na jin\u00e9ho \u010dlov\u011bka, je osvobozuj\u00edc\u00ed. Single t\u0159ic\u00edtky si velmi cen\u00ed sv\u016fj prostor a svobodu. Maj\u00ed pestr\u00fd \u017eivot pln\u00fd z\u00e1jm\u016f, na kter\u00e9 pot\u0159ebuj\u00ed m\u00edt \u010das a svobodu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cht\u011bj\u00ed se rozv\u00edjet, v\u011bnovat se sv\u00fdm z\u00e1lib\u00e1m a v\u011bt\u0161ina partner\u016f by p\u016fsobila sp\u00ed\u0161e restriktivn\u011b. Budov\u00e1n\u00edm rodinn\u00e9ho \u017eivota by se tohoto v\u0161eho museli vzd\u00e1t; nem\u011bli by \u010das samy na sebe, ztratili by osobn\u00ed prostor, kter\u00fd je pro n\u011b velmi d\u016fle\u017eit\u00fd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Svoboda na prvn\u00edm m\u00edst\u011b
Netv\u00e1rme se p\u0159ekvapen\u011b a p\u0159iznejme si, \u017ee jakmile je \u010dlov\u011bk v partnerstv\u00ed, kontakty se v\u00fdrazn\u011b omez\u00ed. Mu\u017ei u\u017e nemohou chodit ven s kamar\u00e1dkami a \u017eeny s kamar\u00e1dy, a\u010dkoli mohou m\u00edt toho hodn\u011b spole\u010dn\u00e9ho.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u017d\u00e1rlivost se bohu\u017eel, pokl\u00e1d\u00e1 za projev l\u00e1sky, co\u017e v\u00fdrazn\u011b pocit svobody omezuje; \u010dlov\u011bk c\u00edt\u00ed, \u017ee se nem\u016f\u017ee po\u0159\u00e1dn\u011b nadechnout. Vztah se st\u00e1v\u00e1 v\u011bzen\u00edm, ve kter\u00e9m nem\u016f\u017eeme svobodn\u011b obdivovat kr\u00e1su a p\u0159ita\u017elivost lid\u00ed. Stejn\u011b omezuj\u00edc\u00edm se st\u00e1v\u00e1 i vztah, ve kter\u00e9m se utkaj\u00ed dv\u011b rozd\u00edln\u00e9 osobnosti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kompromisy a \u00fastupky jsou v partnerstv\u00ed p\u0159irozen\u00e9, ale funguj\u00ed pouze tehdy, pokud jsou lid\u00e9 zral\u00e9 osobnosti, ve vztahu kter\u00fdch nem\u00e1 ego m\u00edsto. Pro du\u0161evn\u011b vyzr\u00e1l\u00e9 t\u0159ic\u00e1tnice, kter\u00e9 v\u011bd\u00ed co od vztahu cht\u011bj\u00ed, je velmi n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9 naj\u00edt stejn\u011b zalo\u017een\u00e9ho mu\u017ee. Partner\u016f s p\u0159ecitliv\u011bl\u00fdm egem, kte\u0159\u00ed by vy\u017eadovaly od \u017eeny jen potvrzen\u00ed vlastn\u00ed dokonalosti, t\u0159ic\u00e1tnice pos\u00edlaj\u00ed kam u\u017e slunce nesv\u00edt\u00ed. A \u017ee jsou jejich hromady!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Znaj\u00ed svou hodnotu
\u010casem, kdy se \u017eeny spokojili s jak\u00fdmkoli partnerem, nen\u00e1vratn\u011b odzvonilo. T\u0159ic\u00e1tnice maj\u00ed jasno a v\u011bd\u00ed, co si zaslou\u017e\u00ed. Chovaj\u00ed se k sob\u011b s respektem, co o\u010dek\u00e1vaj\u00ed i od mu\u017e\u016f. Ve vztahu hledaj\u00ed \u00factu, co\u017e mnoho lid\u00ed (nejen mu\u017e\u016f) rozhodne nezvl\u00e1d\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mnoho osob nechov\u00e1 \u00factu k sob\u011b sam\u00fdm, co se pozd\u011bji projev\u00ed i v partnersk\u00e9m vztahu. T\u0159ic\u00e1tnice na sob\u011b pracuj\u00ed, aby ten respekt k sob\u011b c\u00edtili a vztah m\u011bli harmonick\u00fd. Nehledaj\u00ed man\u017eela, neskon\u010d\u00ed s mu\u017eem jen proto, \u017ee maj\u00ed v\u011bk na zakl\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed rodiny.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Pokud jsou nespokojen\u00e9, ve vztahu nepokra\u010duj\u00ed. Jsou dostate\u010dn\u011b vyzr\u00e1l\u00e9, aby si uv\u011bdomovali svou hodnotu. V\u011bd\u00ed, co si zaslou\u017e\u00ed, a cht\u011bj\u00ed stejn\u011b sebev\u011bdom\u00e9ho a samostatn\u00e9ho partnera. V jejich du\u0161i vl\u00e1dne harmonie, znaj\u00ed samy sebe velmi dob\u0159e, co\u017e je d\u016fvod, pro\u010d hledaj\u00ed podobn\u011b zalo\u017een\u00e9ho mu\u017ee – a takov\u00fdch nen\u00ed mnoho.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

O\u010dek\u00e1vaj\u00ed, \u017ee partner bude jejich nejlep\u0161\u00ed p\u0159\u00edtel
Na partnerstv\u00ed nahl\u00ed\u017eej\u00edc\u00ed jinak ne\u017e p\u0159edchoz\u00ed generace. Partner m\u00e1 b\u00fdt v prvn\u00ed \u0159ad\u011b p\u0159\u00e1tel\u016fm, s n\u00edm\u017e je spojuje mnohem v\u00edc ne\u017e povinnost rozmno\u017eovat se. Pracuj\u00ed na sv\u00e9m vztahu, jeho\u017e jedin\u00e9 napln\u011bn\u00ed nevid\u00ed jen v d\u011btech.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

P\u00e1r m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt harmonick\u00fd a \u0161\u0165astn\u00fd i bez d\u011bt\u00ed; m\u016f\u017ee p\u0159e\u017e\u00edt plnohodnotn\u00fd \u017eivot i bez nich. Do vztahu by ne\u0161ly z nespr\u00e1vn\u00fdch d\u016fvod\u016f. Uv\u011bdomuj\u00ed si, \u017ee v partnerstv\u00ed je nejd\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed b\u00fdt v prvn\u00ed \u0159ad\u011b nejlep\u0161\u00edmi p\u0159\u00e1teli. Nehledaj\u00ed chlapa na oplodn\u011bn\u00ed, ale n\u011bkoho, s k\u00fdm by poc\u00edtili duchovn\u00ed souzn\u011bn\u00ed; co\u017e je dost n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00fd \u00fakol.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Jsou single a pro\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed nej\u0161\u0165astn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed obdob\u00ed sv\u00e9ho \u017eivota. St\u00e1le v\u00edce t\u0159ic\u00e1tnic d\u00e1v\u00e1 p\u0159ednost svobod\u011b ne\u017e partnerstv\u00ed, a rozhodn\u011b na tom nepl\u00e1nuj\u00ed nic m\u011bnit. Dne\u0161n\u00ed single t\u0159ic\u00e1tnice stoj\u00ed na k\u0159i\u017eovatce. Z jedn\u00e9 strany jsou souzeno star\u0161\u00ed generac\u00ed, kter\u00e1 je pokl\u00e1d\u00e1 za star\u00e9 panny a ty chudinky, kter\u00e9 si nemohou naj\u00edt man\u017eela. Druhou stranu tvo\u0159\u00ed otev\u0159en\u011bj\u0161\u00ed lid\u00e9, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":1038,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_sitemap_exclude":false,"_sitemap_priority":"","_sitemap_frequency":"","tdm_status":"","tdm_grid_status":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[43],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1037","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-pro-zeny"],"amp_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lifestyleplus.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1037","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lifestyleplus.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lifestyleplus.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lifestyleplus.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lifestyleplus.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1037"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/lifestyleplus.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1037\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1040,"href":"https:\/\/lifestyleplus.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1037\/revisions\/1040"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lifestyleplus.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/1038"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lifestyleplus.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1037"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lifestyleplus.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1037"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lifestyleplus.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1037"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}